We wanted to get more interactive with all the Sinners out there so we decided to create a space for you all to share things with us. Share your thoughts, ask questions, send us art.....whatever it is you do share it with us and allow us to share it with others. Let's create a community.
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I'm just a huge fan of your content. It's crazy because you guys remind me so much of me and my lady. Keep up the great work and continue sinning
Hey, just wanted to say that y’all are sexy as hell. If I could, I would definitely wanna have a threesome with y’all.
Just found y’all through pornhub, love the content and your energy! hope to move with the strap as well as papi one day. y’all are truly wonderful, thanks for carving out a space for real vagina based sex. happy vday
Love your videos and your YouTube channel! So excited for your merch to drop. I’m also a sex worker and your stuff is inspiring.
Hello, this is atoria, you guys are very good at your videos, and I’m starting to like you guys more. Keep doing you.
You guys have really changed my life in my views on sex and you guys have really made me enjoy making love to my girlfriend or even more
I'm just so pleased to see content and sex between two people who look like me who really connect passionately. It turns me on and fills my heart.
I just think you guys (if Papi and Feignix are the ones that will read this, I get that they're probably busy doing cool shit idk) are really cool. Found you on the hub and crazy as it sounds it was my first real exposure to GENUINE black queer intimacy, I'm not the most experienced in the field of didling but you totally changed the way I view myself and sex in general so thank you. Also nice website! It's easy on the eyes
Great name by the way! We respond to all of our emails! It’s the most direct link outside of social media to us! 🤫 it’s a secret tho cuz no one ever thinks it’s us lol.
We are glad we could be a positive presence in your life! Thank you for supporting us and seeing us!!!
I am a black, queer lesbian in the Northeast US and I have always taken on dominant/aggressive roles in relationships with feminine-presenting women. I’ve done that happily for years! The only problem is that I’m starting to want something else.
I want to know what it’s like to submit. I feel like part of myself is unfulfilled because I’ve never really let myself stand down and accept genuine pleasure from a partner.
The other problem is that I need to be honest with myself about my preferences for masc women + masc non-binary people. I am expected to prefer feminine partners because of how I present-but that’s not true at all!
All I’ve ever known is taking care of my partners; pleasing them fully; overextending myself for them.
But I want to be taken care of. I want to be handled and pleased fully. I want to see a mean-looking, masculine person show me how sweet they can be to my body. I even want to be the bratty, submissive partner that relaxes after sex instead of going to get water and cleaning things up.
It’s starting to become less of a want and more of a need as I near my mid-twenties, but I’m hopeful that I’ll have plenty of time to see my needs met :)
Thanks for this safe space to share!
Hello our frustrated friend,
First thank you for being brave enough to share! This email really excited us because this is something that a lot of people in our community deal with silently. So it's not being honest with yourself that you should do, it's being accepting of yourself.
Welp, you have been honest with us about it and you at least being able to admit it in an email means you are pretty clear about what you like and want. Now the whole being expected to deal with feminine partners thing we get but in this moment let us be the ones to tell you that it is complete bullshit. In relationships the most important thing is balance. Whether it be masculine/feminine or dominant/submissive it doesn't matter balance is always needed. Just because that balance is needed doesn't mean that physically the people have to present the balance. How a person presents themselves is simply that, how you choose to look when you go outside. But who you are as a person is a completely different thing. You present yourself as a dominant/aggressor so people wouldn't even expect you to want to submit but you do! The whole masculine/aggressive needs to be with feminine/submissive thing in the queer world makes absolutely no sense. Acknowledging that you are a person of the queer community means you look at sexuality as so much more than the basic straight narrative of masculine presenting and feminine presenting or however you want to put it. Do not allow the box that the world likes to put us in stop you from the fulfillment that is out there for you.
We can present you with 3 possible options of how to deal with what you are going through.
1. Start simple. Maybe with a little online stuff. Start just getting comfortable chatting with the type of people that you want to be involved with, get comfortable with that. Then start taking small steps to get to where you want to be like maybe a facetime, then a meetup and before you know it you gon be in your bedroom on your knees begging for more.
2. It's definitely not easy being a dominant presenting person and being out with someone that appears the same way. Judgement is a bitch. So explore feminine people with more dominating personalities. Someone who may appear more feminine out in the world but behind bedroom doors they are something else completely. That way it is kind of the best of both worlds until you want to escalate further.
3. Keep stalling and hoping that you have time to fulfill those needs. Keep wanting to be the person that you know you are, for when you really think about it for no one's satisfaction but the world's. Continue to deny your wants and needs until it becomes overwhelming.
There are so many other delicious options out there compared to number 3 explore them while you are still young. Why waste time!? Life is too short.
We are always here and available to chat or discuss anything!!!! Thank you for feeling safe enough to share!!!!
Hey I’m Kat. I have always loved women. We look good, taste good, smell good, and just an overall good vibe. Although, I will always love women..I have been curious about men. So after my break up, 6 months ago, I went online to start having conversations with men. Before this, I have always found some men attractive. What puts me off is when they start to speak. Ignorance seems to be a fluent language that most men speak, especially when interacting with a woman. Anyway, I have always thought that I shouldn’t restrict myself because of someone’s gender. If I find a human being attractive, both physically and mentally, I should go for it. Anyway, I try the online thing for a little. I’ve gone on one mini date where I told him, “this isn’t a date.” But he ended up paying for it. He was cool but I wasn’t into it and I was not attracted to him. I’m not sure if men are my thing or not. Btw, y’all are beautiful beings!
We couldn't agree more with everything you said about women, they really are all that and then some lol. Ctfu it's funny because most of the time they say to pretty women just sit there and pretty but a lot of time they should take their own advice. Men can be your thing and not your thing at the same time. Because the attraction is there it is definitely worth exploring so you can really figure it out. You may just enjoy their aesthetic and company but not in a completely intimate way who knows. Keep doing what you are doing, taking the time and easing your way in to figure out what you want. Also, the best thing to do when dealing with men is exactly what you did, be as up front and honest about what the situation is. To try and avoid and possibilities of them being misled or having expectations.
If anything just flow with it and when you meet a guy that genuinely sparks your interest don't hold yourself back from exploring that interest. That is truly the only way you will really figure out what you are feeling.
Thank you so much we appreciate the love!!!! Bigger thanks for trusting us and sharing.
Boyfriend having Girlfriend Who Loves Pussy
Wanted you bad
Wanted it bad
To taste the grace that cascades between legs
Push my face into space
Thrash tongue inside folds
Kiss lips onto lips
Fit the clit between teeth
Grab breast between hands
Feel your thighs rock against my ears
Listen to moans around my head
Exploring holes tucked away beneath you
Fingers reaching to slip inside
My body pushing decreasing the space amongst us
Forcing two into one
Craming face mouth tongue into you
Now im through
Okay so for the longest ive been calling myself lesbian and my thing with men is that id rather be one then be with one , i feel weird when people call me her and she and whenever people play and call me lil boy is when i feel the most comfortable so i feel like maybe im in the wrong body.
What's up Bean,
Maybe you are in the wrong body.....or maybe you just need to come with terms with how you truly identify. Either way there is nothing wrong with either or. Try easing into your masculinity, do small things for yourself that cater to that identity so you can just get more comfortable with yourself and feel more comfortable expressing who you truly are to the world.
To be perfectly honest it seems you have it somewhat figured out. From the sound of it he/him/boy is who you are. When it comes to the physical; take your time and figure out what your version of him is. Neither of us have gone through specifically what you are going through but we have dealt with figuring out self and projecting the truest versions of ourselves to the world.
Thank you for feeling safe enough with us to express this to us. We are always here and available.
First of all, love your videos, your chemistry! You are couple goals for real!
So I haven't had time to check all of your videos to know the details of your relationship but I believe you could help me out with something. I have a Bi girlfriend and it's her first time with a woman. I never tried sex with a strap on but lately I have a huge desire to try one on her, but I don't know how or what to buy. She really likes vibrators and she is willing to try but wants something that does not look natural, that doesn't look like a penis. Do you have any suggestions?
Thank you so much!!
Thanks for trusting us and being vulnerable with us. Most of the time strap ons do come looking like penises but there are a good amount out there that will resemble the shape but with less detail (no veins, dick head shit like that). There is an image attached with some examples. Blush is our main sex toy provider they have a collection called Nude Impressions they are suction cup vibrators and they could fit in a harness. It's like a dildo vibrator combination.
Vibrators come in more diverse shapes and sizes than actual dildos. We would suggest having multiple vibrators for a little diversity and switch up and maybe one solid dildo that you can use for penetration.
Also do not be scared to go to your local sex store and look around its always tricky ordering online.
We hope this helps a little if you need any more ideas or pointers do not hesitate to reach out.
First of all before I start I'd like to say y'all are the shyt, keep representing for the black community, y'all are a mood and I love y'all. So boom my name is niy, I'm 20 years old, I turn 21 in August this year, BIG LEO. I have a 23 year old girlfriend and we've been together for 1 year 7 months and 30 days exactly. Our 2 year anniversary is on August 5th. We are both leaping into trying new things. This is a big step with me asking someone these questions and I'm just glad that I found y'all and that y'all sell certain things because I just don't wanna get items just from anybody yanno. My girlfriend is not a stud, stem, or anything like that, she doesn't label herself but she is the more dominant one in the relationship, me on the other hand I'm the submissive one, smack my ass, pull my hair, make me scream yanno, I want to fully submit to her but I don't know how too. Sorry for the explicit words I'ma about to use but I would like my girl to use a fucking strap on me. Now keep in mind we've never done anything like this before 1.) So my first question is, Do you guys have discreet shipping? We do have certain family members staying with us and we just like to keep our business on the low because nobody really knows we're together. And it just isn't anyone's business PERIOD.
2.) Second question, what is all that I need to purchase for the strap-on? I know absolutely nothing about it I don't know what comes with it or anything. I'm willing to pay for whatever, im just ready for the experience with my kween.
3.) Third question, any specific lube that needs to be used?
4.) Fourth question, which size would be the best for a couple that is newly coming into this lifestyle?
5.) Fifth question, (this one is for feignix) I'm a curvy tall girl when I say curvy I mean curvy. I'm 5'11 and my girl is 4'11, is there any sexy lingerie that you guys have and most importantly any tips for my ass? Anything will help. I'm new into this and yeaaaa. Love alllll the way from Cali. Hopefully I get to hear from you guys
This was most definitely a great read. Thank you for the love! (Feignix Reign is a Leo). We are glad that you feel comfortable enough to share what you have with us!!
Well our first question would be have you expressed to her that you have the desire to fully submit to her?
1. We don't ship anything directly. We just provide a space for people to have access to the same toys and tools that we use. But we can most definitely reassure you that all toys are shipped discreetly by the companies that we affiliate with.
2. We recommend that you guys pick it together. It's going to be used on you but she is going to be wearing it so she needs to resonate with it. Feel connected to it.
3. Now lube is a big preference thing. We recommend getting a silicone and a water based one so you can figure out which works best for you. Also depending on the toy it will specify which type of lube to use with it. Our personal preference is 9x6, it's a silicone based lube and we absolutely love it. We order it online. But lube is definitely needed and highly recommended especially for strap on play.
4. As far as size, the first question would be have you been penetrated before? We only ask because you would be more aware of what your insides like if you have. But starting out we would recommend a 6-8 inch range and look for a nice girth just so that it doesn't feel like a pencil is poking you. But this is only from our personal experience.
5. Lingerie....we definitely like savage by rihanna its comfortable and the fits are super cute. But if you want to go more cost friendly go on amazon and order some fishnet bodysuits. They have all kinds, they are durable (if you hand wash them) they are crotchless so you have access to all major layers and you can get anywhere from 3-6 in a pack.
The biggest advice we have is don't overthink it. Don't get caught up in being prepared on knowing what you are doing or anything like that. It's something new that you and your partner are trying so take your time to be upfront with each other and just enjoy it. It may not go perfectly in the beginning or it may no matter what remember it's something you are doing for the enjoyment of both of you. The way you do it may not look exactly how other people may look when they do it but that doesn't take away from what you are getting from it. Since you guys have somewhat of a significant height difference and you are desiring to be dominated and taken down, present yourself to her in submissive ways. Meaning allows yourself to appear lower than her with simple things like kneeling in front of her, positioning yourself in a way that she has direct access to what you want her to devour. Build her up as you dominant and aggressor in every way and you will get the results you want.
Everything that we offer is solely from our own experiences. If you ever have any more questions or need any more advice contact us whenever.
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